Comments on: You are missing people. What to do? http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html I blog about things I see, I read, I do Thu, 04 Nov 2010 13:24:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.2 By: mitzu http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-497 mitzu Sat, 27 Feb 2010 04:25:03 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-497 "some part of you will remain there and it will follow you a long time" ... very well said. i'm glad you know what it means “some part of you will remain there and it will follow you a long time” … very well said.
i’m glad you know what it means

]]> By: Andra http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-473 Andra Tue, 24 Nov 2009 00:22:14 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-473 It's more than 2 years you wrote this post; funny...I have just discovered your blog tonight and I’ve already found 2 posts that made me comment on it and open 2 hard subjects of my present life. If you still think to go on your life journey….do it but don’t think that you’ll be ready for all not nice things and feelings that will come over you together with this experience. You’ll always miss your home, friends, town, places, even you are gone be in the most beautiful place on Earth for more than 3 months or trying to make a living, integrate, find a job, a house, learn the language, make new friends, try to build a social life, etc….nothing is gone be like you planed or imagined,……nothing. Maybe it sounds crazy but I am in my second try…..first I went to Germany for almost 1 year from October 2006 to August 2007….and now in The Netherlands for 1 year and 2 months. Not all the money in the world, not even the new experiences and friends on a strange/ foreign land will help you to feel like home and step over the desperate loneliness feeling and that of missing your natural invoirenment. It’s like someone is cutting your routs and tries to plant you in a very big nice and expensive ceramic pot with gold…..your routs will not connect with the ground and your soul will get dried, like a plant’s leaves, your flowers will fall down,…you’ll feel like dying slowly in your new beautiful golden cage like a nice plant with the cut routs in an huge beautiful ceramic pot. And be careful, the way back is not always coming easy, it’s not short and for many times you can’t just live and go back when you want. One thing I know for sure…the moment you left…..nothing is gone be the same even you get richer or get a better life….you’ll always miss something or someone. Be careful what you dream/wish because one day it might happen! It’s more than 2 years you wrote this post; funny…I have just discovered your blog tonight and I’ve already found 2 posts that made me comment on it and open 2 hard subjects of my present life.
If you still think to go on your life journey….do it but don’t think that you’ll be ready for all not nice things and feelings that will come over you together with this experience.
You’ll always miss your home, friends, town, places, even you are gone be in the most beautiful place on Earth for more than 3 months or trying to make a living, integrate, find a job, a house, learn the language, make new friends, try to build a social life, etc….nothing is gone be like you planed or imagined,……nothing. Maybe it sounds crazy but I am in my second try…..first I went to Germany for almost 1 year from October 2006 to August 2007….and now in The Netherlands for 1 year and 2 months.
Not all the money in the world, not even the new experiences and friends on a strange/ foreign land will help you to feel like home and step over the desperate loneliness feeling and that of missing your natural invoirenment.
It’s like someone is cutting your routs and tries to plant you in a very big nice and expensive ceramic pot with gold…..your routs will not connect with the ground and your soul will get dried, like a plant’s leaves, your flowers will fall down,…you’ll feel like dying slowly in your new beautiful golden cage like a nice plant with the cut routs in an huge beautiful ceramic pot.

And be careful, the way back is not always coming easy, it’s not short and for many times you can’t just live and go back when you want.
One thing I know for sure…the moment you left…..nothing is gone be the same even you get richer or get a better life….you’ll always miss something or someone.
Be careful what you dream/wish because one day it might happen!

]]> By: Bobby Voicu http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-240 Bobby Voicu Wed, 14 Nov 2007 17:08:30 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-240 Marius, thanks for the comment. I do believe what you say, I understand that I have to actually accept the feeling in order to know more people and to get a different vision on life :) But this doesn't make it any more easier :) Marius, thanks for the comment.

I do believe what you say, I understand that I have to actually accept the feeling in order to know more people and to get a different vision on life :) But this doesn’t make it any more easier :)

]]> By: Marius Sigheti http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-239 Marius Sigheti Wed, 14 Nov 2007 16:50:27 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-239 Well my friend, there are compromises one has to make sometimes. The new friends you will make (and I bet some of them will be among your best ever - at least in my case) while traveling and your way larger vision for life compensates for missing people for a number of months. Contact stefan.palarie123123i-interact.ro (former JCI member in Romania) for a glimpse of what you are after - though don't do it today, he just became a father 3 hours ago. Well my friend, there are compromises one has to make sometimes. The new friends you will make (and I bet some of them will be among your best ever – at least in my case) while traveling and your way larger vision for life compensates for missing people for a number of months. Contact stefan.palarie123123i-interact.ro (former JCI member in Romania) for a glimpse of what you are after – though don’t do it today, he just became a father 3 hours ago.

]]> By: Bobby Voicu http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-238 Bobby Voicu Wed, 14 Nov 2007 12:54:24 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-238 English, Adrian, English :P Still, I will leave Romania for sometime. Missing people beats not meeting them at all :) English, Adrian, English :P

Still, I will leave Romania for sometime. Missing people beats not meeting them at all :)

]]> By: Adrian Mironescu http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do.html/comment-page-1#comment-237 Adrian Mironescu Wed, 14 Nov 2007 12:14:02 +0000 http://www.bobbyvoicu.com/you-are-missing-people-what-to-do/#comment-237 Din acelasi motiv nici eu nu ma pot desparti de Iasi pentu Bucuresti sau alte locuri desi poate din anumite puncte de vedere mi-ar fi mai bine. Din acelasi motiv nici eu nu ma pot desparti de Iasi pentu Bucuresti sau alte locuri desi poate din anumite puncte de vedere mi-ar fi mai bine.

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